I saw how it almost destroyed my Mom and Dad's marriage. So many times I found myself crying. You always distorted my Dad's perception of things. People disliked him when he drank you - even his own family. You took him away. You did him no good. You killed him.
Before it does the same to the family I have right now, stop. I don't want to be rude. So before I slam the door in your face, please leave.